Experiencing the loss of a baby is a profound and heart-wrenching event that leaves a lasting impact on parents. For many, this grief is compounded by the pressures of returning to work and the lack of understanding and support within the workplace especially for birthing partners. It is crucial to acknowledge and address the significance of baby loss, particularly in the context of the workplace, to support the mental health of those affected and foster a compassionate and inclusive work environment but also to enhance the overall culture of a business.
The Impact of Baby Loss on Mental Health
The loss of a baby, whether through miscarriage, stillbirth, or neonatal death, can lead to intense feelings of grief, depression, anxiety, and trauma. The emotional toll is enormous, and the effects can be long-lasting. Parents who have experienced such a loss often struggle with feelings of isolation, guilt, and unimaginable sadness. Understandably this can significantly impact their mental health, making it difficult to cope with everyday responsibilities, including work.
Workplaces play a critical role in the lives of individuals coping with baby loss. A supportive work environment can make a significant difference when returning to work. However, many workplaces are ill-equipped to handle the unique needs of employees dealing with this kind of grief. Employers often lack the policies and understanding necessary to provide adequate support, which can exacerbate the emotional distress of the affected individuals.
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How can workplaces help bereaved parents?
Compassionate Leave Policies:Â Implementing policies that allow for adequate bereavement leave following baby loss is essential. This time off can help parents to begin processing their grief without the added pressure of work obligations. Removing the barrier of gestational age of which a baby is lost is imperative.
2. Mental Health Resources:Â Providing access to mental health resources, such as counselling services or employee assistance programs, can offer much-needed support. Employers should actively encourage the use of these resources and ensure they are easily accessible.
3. Training and Awareness:Â Training managers and colleagues to understand and support those who have experienced baby loss can create a more supportive workplace culture. Awareness training and programs can help reduce stigma and foster a more compassionate environment.
4. Flexible Work Arrangements:Â Offering flexible work arrangements, such as remote work or adjusted hours, can help parents manage their grief while maintaining their employment.
The Pregnancy Loss Review and Workplace Recommendations
The Pregnancy Loss Review an independent report which was published in July 2023 has emphasised the importance of the workplace in supporting parents who experience baby loss. One of the key recommendations, Recommendation 68, urges all organisations to update their HR policies and practices to effectively support staff who experience pre-24-week baby loss. This recommendation highlights the necessity for comprehensive support structures that can alleviate some of the emotional and mental burdens faced by grieving parents.
Most miscarriages happen in the first 12 weeks of pregnancy (known as early miscarriage). Early miscarriages happen to 10-20 in 100 (10 to 20%) of pregnancies. Second trimester loss (late miscarriage) happens to 1-2 in 100 (1 to 2%) of pregnancies. Around 1 in 80 (1.25%) pregnancies are ectopic.*
Supporting employees through baby loss is not just a compassionate choice but also a beneficial one for organisations. By updating HR policies and committing to adequate training for peers will ensure that employees are equipped to deal with such circumstances. In addition, support such as bereavement leave, mental health support, and flexible working options, companies can foster a loyal and understanding workforce. Employees who feel supported during their most challenging times are more likely to exhibit higher levels of engagement, productivity, and long-term commitment to the organisation. Furthermore, promoting openness and understanding about baby loss can create a more inclusive and empathetic workplace culture, which can enhance overall employee well-being and reduce absenteeism.
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The Importance of Improving Workplace Policies
It is essential that workplaces must undertake the necessary work to improve their policies and support structures for employees experiencing baby loss. Statistics show that approximately 1 in 5* pregnancies end in miscarriage, highlighting the prevalence of this issue and the critical need for adequate support and training to the wider workplace. By proactively addressing baby loss, employers can create a workplace culture that is empathetic and responsive to the needs of all employees, fostering a healthier and more supportive environment for everyone. Employers have a responsibility to create a supportive environment that acknowledges the profound impact of baby loss and provides the necessary resources to help parents cope and overall break the stigma.
The Fear
When an employee returns to work after experiencing the loss of a baby, the workplace can become a minefield of emotions. Colleagues and managers often grapple with how to act and what to say. While it can be tough to find the right words, acknowledging someone's loss is far better than ignoring it. However, understanding potential triggers and knowing what not to say is crucial. This is where education and training becomes imperative.
Little Wings of Hope, a dedicated baby loss charity, provides invaluable resources and training to help workplaces become better equipped to support their staff. Founded through lived experience Little Wings deliver tailored training programs to educate employers and colleagues on how to offer meaningful support and create a compassionate work environment.
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Written by
Leila Hobart
Founder
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*tommy’s website article here.
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